Im lost without the PW thread!!!!

[da.bell]

Nope, not legal to text and drive in ca.....

[Domsz06]

Nope, not legal to text and drive in ca.....

yup so is speeding and running red lights as well

[Guapo]

Dom...that's a tough situation. It's really hard to give advice not knowing all of the history and/or knowing each of your personalities. All I can add is to hang in there and take it day by day. Hanging around waiting on a girl that might be interested in someone else is brutal...causes you to beat yourself up. So I tend to agree with the others that you probably need to start moving on, in lieu of pining away for her. It sounds like she is going to have to come back on her own schedule. You can't manipulate that...and you wouldn't want to. You want her to be with you because that's what she truly wants in her heart....otherwise life would be even worse.

Still show her love and support, but in a non smothering kind of way. Keep letting her know you are there and potentially interested...but moving on. My 2 cents from what I gathered.

[Guapo]

Just passing the time while I'm driving.

Anything good going on with you?

Nope...just trying to get some work in this piss poor economy.

[Jeffe]

don't you know it's illegal to txt n drive in CA?

Is this considered texting? That law is a joke anyways...how are gonna tell the difference between texting & dialing the phone.

[Guapo]

Hi Jeffe, how are you?

I'm good, but your an ashhole.

F U Jeffe...you're the ashhole.

Right back at you **** Wad!

Well fine than...be that way. Your a douche.

I know you are, but what am I?

Yeah, well I F'd your mom.

Oh yeah...well I peed in your moms butt.

Yeah, well wait...that's my mom too

Ewwwww Gross!!!

LOL...

[Guapo]

Is this considered texting? That law is a joke anyways...how are gonna tell the difference between texting & dialing the phone.

What I don't get is that they are even talking about banning phone conversations over bluetooth devices while driving as people focus on the conversation in lieu of focusing on the road. I guess the next step will be to ban talking to anyone else in the car as it's a distraction. Big Brother comes to mind...

[Jeffe]

lol that's kinda funny jeffe.

yeah I have heard eharmony is really long.

i have never been a believer of using those relationship sites.... but that being said when I decide to start to date again who knows. It is hard to meet people after school... do you really wanna date someone you met at a bar??

and at work I'm the only single person... oh well it's all good, make myself happy and be happy alone without someone, that's the key for me now.

Maybe there is a nice girl at church waiting for you???

I met my wife on a random river trip & it turned out that we lived a mile apart. Been together since 2003 & married since 2007.

There is someone out there for you, just dont go looking for her, she will just fall into your lap (hopefully fall into your lap when your both naked)

[Jeffe]

What I don't get is that they are even talking about banning phone conversations over bluetooth devices while driving as people focus on the conversation in lieu of focusing on the road. I guess the next step will be to ban talking to anyone else in the car as it's a distraction. Big Brother comes to mind...

I am sure that kids arguing in the back seat are a huge distraction as well.

I guess they will have to be in the trunk from now on.

[Kito]

I am sure that kids arguing in the back seat are a huge distraction as well.

I guess they will have to be in the trunk from now on.

or strap them to the roof.

[Jeffe]

Just like Aunt Edna

[Domsz06]

Dom...that's a tough situation. It's really hard to give advice not knowing all of the history and/or knowing each of your personalities. All I can add is to hang in there and take it day by day. Hanging around waiting on a girl that might be interested in someone else is brutal...causes you to beat yourself up. So I tend to agree with the others that you probably need to start moving on, in lieu of pining away for her. It sounds like she is going to have to come back on her own schedule. You can't manipulate that...and you wouldn't want to. You want her to be with you because that's what she truly wants in her heart....otherwise life would be even worse.

Still show her love and support, but in a non smothering kind of way. Keep letting her know you are there and potentially interested...but moving on. My 2 cents from what I gathered.

yeah that's what I'm going to do.

Just send her a text every now and then, put some roses every now and then and just let her be (by every now and then I mean no more then 1 time a week, but probably spread it out longer then that). It really sucks. I'm not gonna wait per say, but I'm also not gonna look. I realize that I haven't been truely single in a long time, and I gotta be able to be happy alone. She is the same way, she jumped from a relationship to me, and now to this next guy... (or what ever it is) so will see. It's just so weird since she was still seeing me and hanging otu with me up till the new year, then something changed... I think I know what it is and can't say I blame her. If I would have only "woke" up by then, i wouldn't be in this delima. Oh well, we always have to learn the hard way..

[Domsz06]

Maybe there is a nice girl at church waiting for you???

I met my wife on a random river trip & it turned out that we lived a mile apart. Been together since 2003 & married since 2007.

There is someone out there for you, just dont go looking for her, she will just fall into your lap (hopefully fall into your lap when your both naked)

lol

thanks. Not a big church going type... But i have been thinking about looking again...

yeah i'm not going to look. I was so not interested in women when I found her, and it kind of showed when we first started, then I liked her, then I got scared and that's what caused a lot of the troubles for the next few years, but she still stuck by me. But by doing that she lost herself in me, and then this move happened and she realized it, so now she is off finding herself, and this "friend" who was just dumped by his fiance came along.... oh well. Just let it roll. I'll drop this topic now... I need to stop talking about it so much, just makes it harder.

[Guapo]

lol

thanks. Not a big church going type... But i have been thinking about looking again...

yeah i'm not going to look. I was so not interested in women when I found her, and it kind of showed when we first started, then I liked her, then I got scared and that's what caused a lot of the troubles for the next few years, but she still stuck by me. But by doing that she lost herself in me, and then this move happened and she realized it, so now she is off finding herself, and this "friend" who was just dumped by his fiance came along.... oh well. Just let it roll. I'll drop this topic now... I need to stop talking about it so much, just makes it harder.

At least your talking about it and not keeping it bottled up...gotta vent about it from time to time...I am the church type...I'll keep you in my prayers...if you're OK with that...

[Guapo]

I am sure that kids arguing in the back seat are a huge distraction as well.

I guess they will have to be in the trunk from now on.

That sounds like a great idea to me...i'd be all for it...